The Test Does Not Define You

So. Tomorrow you will take a test. Bubbling in A or B and sometimes E. Writing essays until your fingers cramp. It will be the test. The one we’ve prepared for by reading and writing and thinking and straining.

And now you’re here. Standing. Wondering if ready is a word you’ll ever feel.

But before the morning breaks and the sun crests over the hill with its pinks brushed against orange—before then. There are a few words I want to whisper. Words I’m desperate for you to hear. Words I hope will shape a thousand tomorrows.

The test you will take? It will not define you.

DSC_0694DSC_0706DSC_0236

Gray penciled marks filling in circles will never tell the world who you really are.

So many things will shape and mold your life, and while tomorrow may bend you, it will not dictate the person you are created to become. No schoolroom test will do this.

And really? No test or struggle in life defines who you are. It is how you prepare for the test, react to the test, and accept the outcome that displays your greatness.

As you discover the voice you will bring to others, there are lessons I want to teach you. Lessons not covered in a curriculum.

Lessons you need to know.

If you’ve heard nothing from me all year, I pray you hear me today.

Prepare for the battles. While you’ll never be ready for every test you’re standing in the middle of, your preparation will keep you tall when those around you crumble.

Stand strong during the trials. Giving in, even once, makes it easier to give up again and again and again. Perseverance isn’t for wimps. And you were never created for weakness. You are strong. I see it every day.

Learn from your struggles. You can bring meaning to the painful when you find even the smallest lesson. What can you better understand about the world because of the trial you walked through?

Admit your weaknesses. Arrogance is never respected—feared sometimes, but never valued. Society relishes in seeing the mighty fall, but will esteem those who recognize their limitations.

Act with conviction. Know what you believe and act on those principles. The world will never know your beliefs if you don’t live them fully each day. You are what you believe. If you hold no convictions, if you adhere to no beliefs, if you’re just along for ride, you will never understand yourself.

Know failing is never the same as failure. Defeat can bring focus—a singular clarity that success sometimes misses. You’re only a failure if you never get back up from the fall. And students? You have time to brush yourself off and rise again.

Choose to be brave. Acts of courage cannot exist without fear. It is the dread that requires bravery. The way to fight fear? Be courageous. Be brave because you’re afraid.

Strive for excellence. In everything. Every. Thing. Because working with diligent excellence is saying yes to the brilliant and refusing the idle. No one ever won the race with laziness. Consider Aesop’s Hare. Excellence may take time, yet it’s worth every single slow step.

Bring joy to others. Only when we put humanity before ourselves, do we uncover true value and meaning in this life. The way you give to people defines how society sees you—sees who you truly are. Your heart is always reflected in the way you treat the world.

Know comparison damages your soul. You were created with a voice uniquely yours. No other on earth can be who you are supposed to be for this world. No other can accomplish your purpose. Comparing yourself to another crushes your own potential for greatness.

Seek Truth. Your freedom in this life depends upon the Truths you grasp with both hands. The world and people you love will fail. Truth will not. If in this life you only seek Truth with your entire being, you will find it. And there is no greater success than to uncover its glory.

So. Tomorrow you will take a test. But remember the test will never define you, know the results of an exam do not place a value on your existence.

No.

You have worth and meaning simply because you exist. 

This entry was posted in Joy, Teaching and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

6 Responses to The Test Does Not Define You

  1. jdyer415 says:

    I am the 9th grade testing coordinator for my school. Amen, sister teacher! I felt like hugging so many stressed out teenagers this week. But, of course, I couldn’t. I just told them good luck and to look forward to summertime! I think you’d like a couple of articles I just penned for my blog, Theories: Size 12. I follow you and enjoy your writing style. My colleague says we have similar styles. I’d enjoy your feedback, if you ever have time. Here’s the link. http://www.jodydyer.blogspot.com/

  2. butchieskb says:

    Absolutely so right, a pleasure to see my heart and thoughts in words. Stay the course in believing in what human beings an do and become, thank you so much.

    • Thank YOU for your encouragement! I really do beleive in the potential everyone of my students has to make a difference in this world. Now…if I can only help them choose that path!

  3. Anonymous says:

    Of all of my teachers, I have never had one keep me so motivated to continue to push on through these exams. Even before AP’s started, you sent us positive words to keep us focused. And, to say the truth, it worked. Thank you, Mrs. Iseminger, for being that amazing teacher that managed to keep me going through this week without stressing. :)

Please leave positive, encouraging words. Petals of Joy exists to bring joy and is not a forum for conflict or controversy.